| Naughty Lifestyles
DICTIONARY |
| Here are some basic terms. Visit Our NaughtyLifestyles BOOKSTORE for more info!! |
| Naughty terms commonly used in the
continuum of naughty lifestyles, from the diminuitive swinglifestyle innuendo to more
hard core swinger sex terms. |
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AC/DC - No, not the rock group.......it means bisexual.
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ADULT - Euphemism for materials and activites which are sexual in nature, often equated with pornography but broader than that.
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AGE PLAY - Sexual role play where one one partner pretends to be older and in control over another who pretends to be much younger.
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ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLES - An umbrella term for various naughty lifestyles which indicate any sexuality which is not in the common mold.
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AMERICAN CULTURE- Means the missionary
position, or man on top. |
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ANAL - Anal intercourse; Greek or Greek
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ANAL BEADS - Also known as a "pearl string" and involves placing a string of various size beads connected by a
string into the rectum. These are then slowly teased out or pulled faster upon the beginning of orgasm in order to enhance pleasure. |
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ANALINGUS - Kissing and licking the anal area for pleasure, also known as "rimming". |
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ANIME - Cartoons and animations from Japan which are aimed at mature audiences by inclusion of sexy wild pictures of
women. Anime can cross over into porn, at which point it is known as "hentai". |
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ARSE - British for ass, e.g."piece of arse". |
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BANGER - British slang for penis. The "banger hanger" is a vagina. |
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BAREBACKING - Intercourse without a condom. Perhaps first usage was anal intercourse without a condom, but now used for both. |
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BBW - Big beautiful woman; usually refers to those who might generally be considered overweight but sexually attractive
to those who appreciate that body type. |
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BDSM - An umbrella term which describes bondage,discipline, spanking, fetish play. Often rolls up bondage/discipline and
sadism/masochism, along with dominant/submissive roleplay. |
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BEN WA BALLS - A pair of variable size ,usually metal, balls which are inserted into the vagina. The idea is to gain
sexual pleasure from squeezing thighs together, Kegel's exercises and/or rocking back and forth. |
BESTIALITY - Sexual intercourse with Animals. Illegal, and you won't see that on this site. |
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BISENSUAL/BICURIOUS/BISENSITIVE - Exploring bisexuality or comfortable in the presence of bisexual play. |
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BISEXUAL - Also known as BI or
AC/DC, meaning just what it sounds like.....an interest in and appreciation for naughty relationships and sexual play with both sexes. |
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BLENDED ORGASM - Achieving orgasm by stimulation of several erogenous zones at once; vaginal g-spot and clitoris,
nipples and clitoris, double-penetration (anal/vaginal) etc. |
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BODY SHOTS - Using various body parts, nooks and crannies to drink liquor from. For example using the navel, or dripping
liquor from breasts, etc. Another variation is a form of tequila shooter which involves licking salt from various body parts, sucking
lime from his/her mouth, and then finally slamming the tequila. |
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BONDAGE - Sexual play during which
restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie
or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is
considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive."
(also known as B&D and can be part of a Master/Slave relationship) |
BUKAKE - 1. a Japanese word that can be literally translated as "splash" or "shower".
2. a Japanese sexual term that refers to showering a receiver with sperm from one, several or many men. It is always a sperm shower and, therefore, those on the giving end are always male.
(Literal translation: "sperm shower")
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CAN ENTERTAIN - The couple or single is willing to invite
others to their home for naughty activities. |
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CAN TRAVEL - The couple or single will travel to your
place for naughty activities. |
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CHEATING - Sexual activity with others
without spouse's or partner's knowledge and consent. Same in the alternative lifestyle as in traditional monogamous relationships. |
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CLEAN - Hygienic appearance; Free of STD or sexually
transmitted diseases |
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CLOSED SWINGING - Full term is Closed Door Swinging; Couples who enjoy playing in
separate rooms behind closed doors (in the same house/establishment) such that they
do not visually observe each other's naughty sexual activities with others. |
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CLOSET SWINGERS - Couples or persons who do not openly state that they are swingers. |
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COUPLE - In alternative lifestyles, this is almost always a man and a woman who are either married,
committed, or cohabitating in most cases. "Cpl" is often used for short. |
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CULTURES - Euphemism for various Fetishes and Arts
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CUM - Orgasm; can also mean sperm/seminal fluid |
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CUNNILINGUS - Oral stimulation of the vagina and
clitoris using the tongue and lips, with light use of teeth ;French Culture, Giving Head,Oral-Genital contact
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CYBER-SEX - Use of the Internet/WWW for sexual contact and visual, and audio, stimulation.
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DISCIPLINE - Sexual play during which one
partner plays dominant over another willing submissive participant. This can include punishment and
varying degree of painful stimulation, spankings, use of whips; often used for controlled rape fantasies and
controlled orgasms. |
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DISCREET/DISCRETION - In the context of naughty lifestyles and swinging,
the couple is asking anyone who contacts them or plays with them
to exercise caution such that their children or other family members who may have access to mail, email or
answer the telephone will not stumble upon or find our about swinging activities. |
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DOMESTIC TRAINING - In the context of a dominant/submissive relationship, means obedience and
performance of household duties which may be intimate or humiliating. |
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DOMINANT - DOM for short; the dominant half of a dominant/submissive sexual relationship. Often this
type of relationship extends far beyond sexuality per se. |
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ENGLISH CULTURE - In the context of naughty lifestyles, means producing sexual arousal by
spanking, whipping or caning. |
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EXHIBITIONIST- A person who enjoys being watched during varying states of undress and/or sexual activity
in public. |
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FELLATIO - Giving head; providing oral stimulation of the penis. |
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FETISH - Using non-sexual objects,actions or non-sexual body parts/anatomy
to produce sexual arousal; for example shoe or leather fetish. |
FOURSOME - Sexual play between four people, usually between two couples.
FRENCH (French Culture) - Oral-genital
contact and sexual play including both fellatio and cunnilingus. |
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FULL RELEASE MASSAGE - Massage including sexual stimulation to orgasm. |
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GREEK - Greek culture; means anal intercourse. |
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GROUP SEX - Sexual play between three or more people; moresomes; Roman culture;orgy
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HARD SWINGING - Sexual play during which full sexual interaction with genital/genital contact and
usually penetration occurs; sometimes referred to as HARD CORE swingers |
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HEAD - Oral genital stimulation;French culture
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HEDONIST - Someone who lives for pleasure, including swinging and appreciation of other alternative naughty lifestyles
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HOST - The person or couple who is hosting either a party or is/are the owner(s) of a swingers club.
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HUNG - Refers to a guy who has a large penis; well hung |
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INDOOR SPORTS - Sometimes used to refer to naughty sexual activities; swinging. |
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LEATHER FETISH - Sexual arousal via wearing leather garments. |
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LESBIAN - A woman sexually and emotionally
attracted exclusively to other women; differs from bisexuality, in which there is attraction to both sexes. |
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LIFESTYLE- Generally is the same as swinging of all types, soft and hard swingers. In our opinion,
there is really a continuum of naughty lifestyles, not just one "lifestyle", which encompasses exhibitionist behavior to the full range of
swinging activities. |
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KING TRIAD - Sexual play between one man and two women.
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MARITAL AIDS - Adult toys for sexual pleasure; vibrators, and other devices
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MASOCHISM -Sexual arousal brought on by providing or receiving pain and humiliation from others. Usually used
as the combined term, S&M, or sadism and masochism. |
MBC - Married black couple |
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MBF - Married black female |
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MBM - Married black male |
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MEET FOR PLEASURE- Meeting another couple for sexual play only, without any requirement to
get to know each other or develop any relationship. |
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MENAGE A TROIS- A threesome between a couple and another female or another male |
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MORESOMES - Orgy; Roman culture |
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MWC - Married white couple |
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MWF - Married white female |
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MWM - Married white male |
| NAUGHTY LIFESTYLES - Hot internet site celebrating the continuum of
various forms of naughty sexual play and alternative lifestyles |
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NEWBIES - Those who are new to an activity such as swinging |
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| OFF PREMISE CLUBS-
No sexual activity is allowed at the club; the purpose is to meet and greet and party, but any sexual encounters between
interested couples are arranged for another time and place. |
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ORAL GENITAL- Sexual stimulation of the vagina or penis by the mouth and tongue; French culture |
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ORGY- Group sex between multiple couples and singles, usually prolonged andfree for all contact between
all people involved
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OPEN SWINGING - Can have a dual and conflicting meaning. In some circles it means that couples are
sexually open enough to swing apart from each other, in different places and times. It can also mean the opposite of "closed swinging" or "closed door" swinging, in
which all sexual activity is in the same room or within view of each other.
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PASSIVE - Submissive person who will accept but not give certain sexual behaviors/treats.
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QUEEN TRIAD - Sexual play with between one woman and two men.
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RECREATIONAL SEX -Swinging and the continuum of naughty lifestyles and sexual play activities
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ROMAN CULTURE Group sex; orgy
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S/M- S&M; Sadism and masochism. Sexual play involving pain and humiliation. |
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SAFE -Descrbies a person who can't
get pregnant or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy or a woman who has had her tubes tied.
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SAFE SEX- Using protection against sexually transmitted disease during sexual play, usually condoms.
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SINGLE -In the context of swinging, a single person (SGL) who is involved in threesomes and moresomes sexual play. |
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SOCIAL -As in traditional environments, a gathering or party. However, after meet,greet and party, sexual play may ensue.
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SQUIRTER- A woman who cums/orgasms with release of a lot of vaginal fluids, which is not urine. |
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SWING CLUB - A club which usually requires membership/fee and provides an environment
for both social and swinging sexual activities. This may include a group of members who go to different sites for
scheduled parties and swinging, or it may be a physical site to which couples go. Often the clubs restrict or prohibit attendance
by single males.
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Anal genital penetration between same sex or opposite sex during sexual play. |
| SOFT
SWINGING - Also called soft swap, and includes an erotic situation with or without
sexual play but not to the point of vaginal/anal penetration.
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STD -Sexually transmitted disease, including viral, bacterial and parasites.
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STRAIGHT - In the context of swinging, the refers to a person who is not interested in same sex play;STR;Str8
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SUBMISSIVE - Passive and willing to be in the receiving end of sexual play, including bondage and DOM/SUB relationships.
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SWAPPING - Soft or full-swap, used to denote swapping partners for sexual play in a range from petting, oral play and on up
to penetration.
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SWINGING LIFESTYLE - Swinging is social and sexual intercourse with someone other than your mate,
boyfriend or girlfriend, excepting the traditional one-on-one dating. It may be defined as recreational social sex. The activity may occur
at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome.
Though single men and women are involved, it is primarily an activity of couples |
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THREESOME -Sexual play involving three people, usually a couple an a single male or female;triad
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TICKET -Use by a single male of a woman solely to gain access to a swinger party or club; if uncovered
the "couple" is usually expelled and banned from further attendance. Usually single women are allowed in parties and clubs, so this situation
is usually as described, use of a woman by a man as a ticket.
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TRANSSEXUAL (TS)- Trans-gender conversion via surgery and hormones. Genital/sexual organs are converted. |
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TRANSVESTITE (TV)- Sexual arousal and gratification by cross-dressing in the opposite sex's garments. Sexual/genital
organs are intact from birth; in other words, no surgical/hormonal conversion has occurred.
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VASECTOMY- Surgical procedure which renders a man unable to inseminate a woman; safe |
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VOYEUR -Sexual arousal and gratification gained by secretly observing others undressing or engaged in
sexual activity |
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WATER SPORTS -Engaging in exhibition of and observing of or getting into the stream of urine as part of sexual arousal and
gratification; golden showers |
